one time i was talking with an old friend of mine yang entah gimana ceritanya pokoknya jadi ngomongin cowok. eh gak sedangkal itu sih, lebih tepatnya sih ngomongin relationship. 
kawanku itu mengucapkan hal yang surprised me quite a bit. she said kalo dia itu dengan cowok selalu dia yang mulai suka. eh it’s not because there isn’t a single man who like her yah. maksudnya yang jadi serius dengannya tu selalu mulainya dari dia. dia bilang dia mau DIA-lah yang memilih pasangan hidupnya ntar. jadi when she likes someone, she’ll work hard to get him. dia justru gak minat sama yang suka dengannya. it surprised me karena i never thought she was that type and i’ve known her for years!! and also because that kind of thing (girl being the one doing PDKT) sangat.. apa ya.. completely unthinkable to me. ya i know there are lots of girls and women out there who do that. but i don’t think i’d ever do that and i never even thought that one of those people might be someone i know. eh ini bukannya aku menganggap PDKT-ing (apa sih englishnya PDKT??) girls are bad yaaa.. justru karena ini aku jadi sadar ternyata i’m quite the conservative type ya.. dan just recently i was surprised for the second time karena ternyata another friend of mine is penganut aliran ini juga (halah aliran..). ternyata emang you never truly know someone.
~listening to Spitz’s Cherry for the thousandth time in the last two days..~
