Hm hmm judul di atas adalah untuk kalo aku lagi ingin melaporkan fenomena alam ataupun sosial hasil pengamatanku. huwehehee najong banget bahasanya.
Yah pertama-tama, membahas hasil postinganku sebelumnya, yang mengenai orang pacaran dunia milik berdua. berdasarkan “feedback” dari kawan-kawanku, bisa diambil kesimpulan (kok jadi kayak lagi nulis Bab 5 TA ya..
) kalo opini terbagi dua, yaitu:
1. Bahwa aku terlalu sensi dan tidak mau mengerti keadaan orang yang punya pacar.
2. Setujuu!! memang bagi orang yang punya pacar tu pacar segalanya dan kawan bukanlah apa-apa.
Naah sekarang berdasarkan demografis (aka status) partisipan survei didapat bahwa, the ones who hold the former opinion are mostly those who have or used to have bf/gf. And those who think the latter (that people in love are a pain in the as*) are mostly those who have always been single ato dengan kata lain emang belum pernah pacaran (ini perkiraan sih, karena ada beberapa yang aku tak tau statusnya). Naah dari sini bisa ditarik kesimpulan.. kah? Bingung yang ada aku.
Does this mean that everyone will turn into selfish jerks when they get themselves a bf/gf?? Na’udzubillah deeehh (knock on wood). Aku tak mau jadi teman di kala senang doang kayak gitu..
June 22, 2009 at 1:26 pm
ah segitunya bu siti ini..klo gw sih mikirnya gini..in the end, normally and generally ya (some exceptions could occur), kita smua bakal ketemu ama seseorang yg bakal jadi suami/istri kita, hidup bersama sampe, normally again, maut memisahkan. to that person will we share our happiness, sadness, worry, and many other things.. but it’s not easy, it takes time to understand each other, and at this time, they will seem to be selfish by ‘outer world’. so that’s why for me i dont see it as selfishness. I’m happy for them. and if by any chance, they did like you describe in your previous post, i think (not sure though, cause it never happened to me :p ) i won’t call them a selfish jerk, because I CONSIDER them as a good friend.
. Or they’re just not your friend in the first place.
anyway, if they also think of you as a friend, it’s just weird they did that. Two possibilities, they forgot. This one is human, I think, jadi harap maklum lah
–ngjunkdiblogoranghehehehehe
June 22, 2009 at 1:46 pm
heh malah numpang ngeblog..
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i know nic, i also thought that way. but that means, when you consider the second possibility, it kinda hurts. that s/he doesn’t think you as important as you think s/he is. you’re the only one treasuring the friendship. (loh kok kayak cinta bertepuk sebelah tangan
guess i’ll try to take up your view then. what’s the use of getting angry when the one you’re angry at doesn’t even realize it, right?
June 22, 2009 at 4:32 pm
as Indonesian people, please use Indonesian language rightly and properly…
June 22, 2009 at 4:35 pm
yaah kalo pake EYD tanganku langsung macet jay. yang mo ditulis gak jadi keluar
June 24, 2009 at 5:18 pm
oh kesimpulannya itu ya….
hehehe